Unlike what the Mean Girls, Maxim taught us - if you have sex, you probably won’t die.
Sexual health is something everyone should keep in mind. The virgin - whore dichotomy is irrelevant when it comes to keeping yourself healthy, clued up and good to go- should the occasion arise.
While sex education is still best obtained from a gynecologist, GP or experienced nurse - here are some baseline rules regarding condoms to keep in mind in order to ensure that you can go and live your best life:
1. No glove no love, kids.
Even if she tracks her period or he claims he’s a virgin. Condoms are still the best way to prevent STDs (Sexually Transmitted Diseases) such as HIV, which are spread by the exchange of bodily fluids via both the front and back doors.
2. The pill only works if you do.
Missing a single day of the pill or being on other medications like antibiotics or antidepressants may render your oral contraceptive less effective. This increases your chance of falling pregnant if you are a female engaging in straight sex. Be wise and …
3. Condoms are multipurpose.
It’s entirely appropriate to use a condom for oral sex as STDs are also transmitted this way (looking at you, Herpes and HPV). Female condoms are usually available on campus albeit limited. DIY femdoms are accessible by simply cutting a normal condom down its length and folding it open. Magic.
4. The Mythical Backdoor Loophole
Studies have found that HIV is actually more easily transmitted during anal sex. You should be using a condom anyway (see above) but keep this in mind if you think unprotected anal sex is safer because you won’t fall pregnant. You are still at risk of a possible HIV infection.
5. Safety First Talks
Talk to your sexual partner/s about sexual health and exclusivity vs open relationships. It’s both safer to know what’s happening and the decent thing to do. If your sexual partner/s refuse to discuss sexual health - they are trash. No excuses.
6. Getting tested
If you’ve had unprotected sex an HIV test is probably required. You can get the test done at campus health and have the results in ten to fifteen minutes. Simply ask to see the Nurse if you don’t want to explain your business to the waiting room. It’s nerve wracking and possibly something one might want to do alone. It is always better to know your status.
More sexual health installments will be coming soon but in the meantime Buzzfeed and Women's Health magazine have some really great information and life hacks regarding sexual health.